Before the spouse and I embarked on raising a family, we took a trip to Ireland to do the Irish things one does there and to look up where her parents came from.  So we started out on a traditional guided bus tour with people from all over the world.  We were about an hour into the planned trip when the guide got a call and we had to wait a couple of hours for a fellow traveler to catch up to the bus since they missed the original departure.  Well ok, this person being in a foreign country probably got confused or lost so no big deal.  That’s not what it turned out to be though.  Rather it was a local person, who actually lived in the departure city and thought the bus would wait for her to get there, we didn’t.

She later complained that she had a lousy trip because everyone else on the trip was mad at her, well duh.  We all traveled thousands of miles for this vacation and were on time.  She only had to travel a few miles and couldn’t get there the same as us.  So to say the rest of her traveling companions being resentful of her lack of consideration; might have played into how she was treated.