They don’t get to have an opinion about what’s it like to work for a living when the closes thing they have had to a job was an unpaid internship doing something they wanted to do in the first place.  Until they have worked at a job that they hate, day after day, month after month because they have a family to support, only then can we have a discussion.  For you don’t also get to do what you like or like what you do, rather you just have to do.