Words have power; it’s a power you have to take seriously. So don’t say stupid things that you haven’t really thought through and then be surprised at other people’s reactions. Words can hurt and unintentionally lead to actions by others that hurt people. So think before you speak, pleaze!
If on the off chance you did think before you spoke your words and understood what you were trying to do, and it comes out as a negative, then go f*ck yourself, pleaze, just saying.
